Single in the City: Prioritize yourself– not excuses

By Ericka Alston Buck& Special to the AFRO& Have you ever found yourself waiting around for someone who constantly claims they are “too busy” to spend time with you? If I had a dollar for every time I heard that line, I’d be lounging on a tropical beach right now. Let’s cut through the noise and get real: people make time for what they truly want and make excuses for what they don’t. If they’re not prioritizing you, it’s time to stop making excuses!& Ericka Alston Buck gives advice on putting yourself first when looking to add others to the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Photo: Courtesy photoLet’s dive into why we should never settle for being anyone’s option when we deserve to be a priority.As a single Black woman on the journey to find “her person,” I’ve heard it all. The “I’m swamped with work” line, the “I’m dealing with a lot right now” spiel, and my personal favorite, “I just need some space.”& Enough is enough. We deserve to be treated as a priority–not an option. So, let’s talk about recognizing when a potential partner is making excuses and how to respond.Recognizing the excuses1. “I’m Too Busy”If...