When it’s Time to Say Goodbye in a Relationship

If we were to be honest, there are times that some relationships are way too costly for us. And it’s necessary to make tough decisions about whether we will remain in it or leave altogether. Many times, we know when we reach this point, but often struggle with making a solid decision. The result of that indecision, or delayed decision, can result in frustration and possibly even loss. If this describes you, I want to help you move forward and I’ll pose a simple question first. What is this relationship costing you to stay in it? Rather than just think aloud, grab a piece of paper and write the pros and cons. Once that’s completed, continue to write about what you’re experiencing in the relationship. Here are a few questions, too, which should help. First, is the relationship peaceful, purposeful and progressive, or does it yield disturbances, distractions and detractions? Second, what is your state of mind after interacting with the person? And can you imagine a future with them continuing from this point? By completing this exercise, your answers will point you toward either a positive or negative experience.  But, if you’re still uncertain about your direction, let me...