17 Signs of Abuser You May Have Missed (Man or Woman)

You may not have seen it, but the video of music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs beating his then ex-girlfriend Cassie, has been unearthed and has sent shockwaves through the community. The sheer violence of the video has started conversations about what an abuser looks like, can he or she change, and what signs from an abuser you may have missed. Here are signs from both men and women abusers you should keep an eye out for. 9 Signs of an Abusive Man 1. Controlling Behavior Controlling behavior typically presents as wanting to control how a person spends their time and can include: Constantly questioning where a person has been and who they were with. Making all the decisions. Controlling the finances. Checking the call history, messages, emails, and internet history of a person. Telling a person how to dress, who they can talk with, and where they can go. 2. Jealousy and possessiveness A person displaying abusive behavior may be excessively jealous and possessive. Some examples can include: Wanting to be with their partner all the time Frequently calling or dropping by unexpectedly Accusing a person of flirting with others or having affairs Not allowing a person to go out,...