COLUMN: Rest and Boundaries: A Man’s Real Power and Ultimate Flex

Artist Credit: Rich Griffis& By Robert H. Marshall Jr. We gotta talk. Here’s the deal: we’ve been fed some straight-up lies, and I’ve been believing them for so long, I didn’t even realize it. For years, we’ve been told that resting is lazy, expressing our feelings is weak, saying “no” is selfish, and that setting boundaries isn’t what we do. The world tells us that our worth is tied to what we have, what we do and how much we give.& Our worth, identity, and masculinity are often tethered to performance metrics we never even agreed to. Being an “alpha male” is seen as carrying it all, like when we attempt to bring in all the groceries up in one trip. After talking with seasoned brothers and reflecting on my own life, I’ve realized that many men hold onto things, people, and seasons far longer than we should—because of guilt or obligation. You feel me? “Real power comes when you stop gripping what drains you and start reaching for what fuels you, letting go to reclaim your peace and make space for the life you deserve.” — Robert H. Marshall Jr. The Lie of Strength: Breaking Free from Overload From...