Brave Black Woman Defends Herself Against White Assailant in Viral Clip, Clarifies Misconceptions About Turning Down Kiss

A video depicting a Black woman defending herself against a white man who attempted to choke her outside a nightclub circulated widely over the weekend, serving as a cautionary tale for single women regarding the dangers of rejection. “These guys truly struggle with rejection!” commented one post, while another exclaimed, “New fear unlocked.”U.S. Army Staff Sgt. Sha’Neal Fox-Jones, originally known as Sha’Neal SoLovely on TikTok, addressed the viral incident in a three-minute clip, clarifying misunderstandings surrounding the encounter, which took place on July 20, 2025. “The young man wasn’t trying to kiss me; he wasn’t facing rejection,” she clarified. Instead, he was attempting to re-enter the club after being ejected for prior violent behavior. Sha’Neal actively informed law enforcement and expressed that the attack has escalated her anxiety, revealing, “This is not my Bingo card this year to go viral for fighting,” highlighting the emotional toll of such trauma. (Photos: X/Soulful1865, TikTok/Shanealsolovely)