A Life’s Lesson

I was up thinking this morning how drastically my personality has changed. There was a time that, during any spirited discussion, i.e. argument, I would dig in and chime back, create a strong comeback statement (or have my “clapback” ready as the young folks call it) or simply debate just to make my point known. Well, my 50s have taught me that either I will listen, or I’ll learn. Now, keep in mind, I’m referencing those times that I know I’m right about something (or at least strongly believe I am). During those times, I would tend to dig in real deep on my point (even if there was a possibility that I’m wrong); and sometimes, even at the expense of the relationship. And if you were honest, you’ve likely been there too. Well, here’s the deal: It’s not up to you or me to make anyone else receive the wisdom that we have learned in our more mature years. That choice solely rests upon them. I remember a saying by a famous comedian. It went something like this, “You gone learn today.” Life has a way of teaching us all, and if they don’t receive the wisdom from me...